You might really be into this guy. But how do you know he’s worthy of your time and energy? You don’t want to end up with someone who isn’t worthy in the long run. Trust us, it’s better to be alone than with someone who isn’t worthy of a relationship with you.
Are you going to put up with someone who doesn’t know how to treat a woman right just because you don’t want to be alone? Today, New Jersey Singles reviews signs the guy you’re with is not a keeper. If you notice these warning signs, throw this bad fish back.
1. He spends more time on the phone than with you.
When you spend time with your boyfriend, he’s expected to give you his undivided attention. Otherwise, what’s the point in spending quality time together? If you notice that he’s constantly distracted with his phone and checks it every five seconds, he’s clearly not interested in spending time with you. If your boyfriend obsessively looks at his phone when he’s supposed to be spending time with you, then you’re better off without him.
2. He knows you’re mad but doesn’t care.
Let us make this one clear: if he says, “I’m sorry that I offended you, but it was only a joke,” or anything along those lines, that’s not a true apology. Chances are he’s only saying it because he feels like he has to say it. He doesn’t care that he offended you. All he cares about is deflecting the blame from himself. Do you really want to be with a guy like this? Do you really want to date someone who is too immature to admit his own faults?
3. He makes a big deal about paying for dates.
True gentlemen still exist, and when the pay for the date when they take a woman out. We’re not saying that a guy is responsible each and every time, but he should definitely do his part during the early stages of the relationship. If you don’t mind paying for all the meals, then go ahead and date him. If the guy you’re with complains about paying or makes an attempt to get out of picking the bill (especially if he puts his portion on you), then you deserve someone better.
4. He compares you to his exes.
There’s nothing worse than being compared, and it will definitely make you feel insecure and embarrassed. It doesn’t matter if he only makes small comparisons, it isn’t fair to you to be compared to his ex-girlfriend. If he’s always comparing you to her, leave the relationship right now. You deserve someone better.
5. He’s always checking other women out.
When you’re together, are his eyes solely for you? Or do they wander every time a beautiful woman walks by? Does he tune you out mid-conversation to check out the hot waitress? He might not be getting their numbers, but checking them out in front of you is disrespectful too. You deserve to be with someone who doesn’t make you feel like you’re competing with other women.
6. He doesn’t show affection in public.
Sure, your boyfriend might not be into PDAs, but if he doesn’t show any type of affection in public and acts like he’s embarrassed to be seen with you, then something is off. Cut him loose. You deserve a man who shows you how much he loves you, at home and in public.
7. He still has an account on Tinder.
Maybe he tells you that he’s only using Tinder as an ego boost or because all his friends are on there too. But do you really believe him? If your boyfriend hasn’t uninstalled the app from his phone, it’s because he’s still using it to pick up women.
8. He doesn’t include you in future plans.
He gets tickets for a football game but doesn’t invite you along. He makes plans to go out on the weekend but doesn’t ask you to come along. He talks about how he’s going to get a place downtown but doesn’t mention anything about you living together. If you’re starting to get a feeling that you’re not as important as you believed you were, do not ignore that feeling. It’s time to move on.
You deserve nothing less than the best. If the guy you’re dating is doing one or a few of the things we mentioned above, cut him loose now.
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